Jasmine channelFrom Billings
The amount of time and resources involved generally prompt the INTJ to simply choose not to have children at all. This analytical type finds themselves drawn to relationships with other intuitive-dominant types who place a high value on intellectual exploration. A little constructive criticism is healthy in a relationship, but too much can be very damaging. If your companion begins to express concerns about your lack of communication, explain that you do not intend to come across as uncaring or hurtful — you simply prefer to express yourself through action.
On the other hand if you rush them before they are ready, INTJs are perfectly capable of shutting you out. This first step can be taken to an unhealthy extreme, and when the list mental or otherwise becomes too specific, this will end in disappointment. It is no secret that INTJ has a difficult time expressing emotions, but in actuality they can feel very strongly about a companion. A relationship with this quiet but self-sure individual can be very enlightening to the participants as a couple as well as on an individual level.