Elfreda channelFrom Ventura
The introverted intuition factor can prevent this individual from sharing personal information even with a trusted partner. But this must be returned by their partners. More than anything, INTJ wants a healthy relationship in which they and their partner are comfortable and content.
Ask stupid subjective questions. Such pairings have a good balance of differences and similarities and, again, are less likely to struggle with issues pertaining to hurt feelings or emotional sensitivities. We are weirdoes to most people! One part word nerd, two parts skeptic, she helps writing-challenged clients discover the amazing power of words on a page. A date is not an interview INTJs famously require a mate of the mind - someone clever, preferably genius, and independent enough to stand up to the INTJ's formidable intellect.